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WTF is this man child

8 replies

reallyamontheedge · 26/07/2026 12:28

I am so close to leaving my fucking husband.
So we barely have sex anymore. We plan to have sex this weekend (I know, how romantic). I start getting cramps on Friday morning, check my period tracker and realise I am due on soon. Sent him a screenshot of tracker saying something like don’t get your hopes up but I might be on over the weekend. Get a reply back of a vomit emoji which enrages me. Anyway he said whatever doesn’t matter, I am used to being neglected (yawn).
put toddler to bed Friday night and then he lays into me saying I didn’t need to send the screenshot of my tracker, it’s disgusting????? No idea why it’s disgusting. I said it was to pre warn you the weekend may not go as planned.
Anyway period hadnt arrived Saturday so said it’s still not here so we can carry on with our plan. He said no it’s disgusting if you are due on. Now he has been having a go at me on and off since Friday night saying I ruin everything and I must be having an affair.

This is just one thing but has pushed me over the edge. Sick of him. Don’t even know why I am writing here, I need to leave him. I am so much happier at work when I’m not around him. Just wish he would fuck off.

OP posts:
Badbadbunny · 26/07/2026 12:31

Yup, start making plans and leave him. Why are you wasting you life with this loser?

reallyamontheedge · 26/07/2026 12:32

That is a question I ask myself daily. Do I really want to be miserable for the rest of my life

OP posts:
whippersnapper55 · 26/07/2026 16:50

Yes you really do need to leave, he sounds vile! You deserve to be treated with love and respect, he's doing the opposite 😕

Fluffyscrubberdo · 26/07/2026 16:52

This is so far away from normal or acceptable behaviour. Please don’t push this down and think it’s not that bad because it really is that bad.

Glitchymn1 · 26/07/2026 16:55

You’ve already made your mind up OP, nobody is going to say try and save it…

nc42day · 26/07/2026 16:59

Leave him behind, and move on.

Thatsthebottomline · 26/07/2026 17:00

reallyamontheedge · 26/07/2026 12:32

That is a question I ask myself daily. Do I really want to be miserable for the rest of my life

Well, you've asked yourself.the right question. What does he bring into your life is perhaps a better one.

Sodthesystem · 26/07/2026 18:11

Why would you want to have sex with him anyway?

Imagine being a grown man trying to shame a woman for having a period.

Hes a creepy, nasty little misogynist who doesn’t even like you. Get him in the bin, with the tampons he’s so afraid of because of cooties.

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