Advice please

[EssexMum80]

Husband has recently become very distant and swears he's just stressed at work but I'm wondering if there's something more to it especially as he no longer wants to be intimate. Recently a male neighbour in a similar situation is showing interest and I'm finding it hard to say no... dilemma..

Talk to your husband. There's no dilemma. The only dilemma is in your mind at this stage.

Well surely the answer is to bang your neighbour!

what could possibly go wrong.

You don't solve problems within your marriage by going outside of it. You also shouldn't shit on your own doorstep. Stay away from your neighbour.

Ffs you’re asking for permission to shag your neighbour and intimating your husband is cheating to give you an excuse.

he isn’t cheating, but if you do then you suck!

You’re trying to find a pathetic excuse to cheat with your neighbour. Grow up and deal with your marriage. If you have kids god help them with your level of maturity.

Thank you at least 1 of these responses at least a bit understanding!

Sounds like you have both checked out to some degree. Make him a priority and have a discussion with him

Talk to your Husband - sooner rather than later x