I need some help with my ex husband..
We split up in july 2025. Hes lazy. He didn't work or contribute to the general upkeep to the property.
We own a jointly owned property but as we both have an IVA it is unable to be sold. We share a almost 6 year old.
He lives with his parents. They are both heavy drinkers. They haven't seen our child since january 2025. They chose not to see her because they had an issue with me. I dont want her going there. They've threatened the social on me before and have said I wouldn't get our child back if she was to go there.
My ex is now saying he wants more time with our daughter which is fine. However he works shifts at a local shop and these are very random. He never asks to see her and I have to initiate contact. He doesnt want to do any pick ups or drop offs from school and hasnt taken her to school since july 2025. After speaking today he says he hates that he has to come down to see her but has never offered any other suggestions. He never messages randomly and says oh im off work can I see her?
He regularly threatens suicide when he doesnt get his own way. He says things like he's just going to go wondering until he dies. He took an overdose 4 weeks ago and claims this is all my fault.
He now says we have to go to mediation and I have to pay for it. I dont have the funds.
I need to know what happens now.