Been together 15 years, married for 11. Two children. He’s the main breadwinner. I work a small part time job around the kids. I’ve found out a platonic work friendship turned into inappropriate messages and drunken nights out. Both say nothing happened but I couldn’t give a fuck I don’t think I can ever get past it. So what are the next steps - how do people cope? I early £16k a year and his OTE is £150k.
Do you separate/lawyers/go straight for divorce/who decides on who gets what?
He feels guilty it wasn’t like that, wants me and out life bla blah blah couldn’t give a fuck I’m so done. Just need to protect myself and my children now.