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ABUSIVE AND READY TO LEAVE UPDATE

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Aplcdone · 13/07/2026 18:43

Hey guys, I don’t know if you remember me I posted last year, I can’t remember exactly when but I was looking for advice etc on leaving my relationship where I was emotionally being abused, I thought I would update you all……. I LEFT!
I did carry on till early this year, but unfortunately it just got worse and worse, accusations again, being called a fat C**t, saying not nice things about my child, I was lazy, then if I didn’t want to do something for him he would threaten me with the relationship that it would be over, and after all that the final straw was bringing my child into it, I decided enough was enough and that was that! I did do a Clare’s law also and actually had them turn up at my work with info and everything clicked and fell into place! So I actually have my peace back now guys, and if anyone wants to chat please pm me if you are struggling to, as some people said just block and end it which is all being well but it wasn’t just that easy, but the main thing is it’s done and I am some what free now 🙂 hope everyone is well!

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ExplodingSmittens · 14/07/2026 07:40

Well done on getting out and being safe.

And yes, thank God for Clare’s Law, her family are truly amazing.

Stillso · 14/07/2026 08:32

Aplcdone · 14/07/2026 06:48

There was always going to be a drama but was finally accepted 🙂

This is brilliant!! How long ago was the split? Any children?

Francestein · 14/07/2026 08:35

I am so proud of you for saving your life and protecting your child!

Aplcdone · 14/07/2026 11:46

No only my child, we didn’t have any together. The last time I spent a weekend with with was February, and I see him when had to give his key back and them sort of things 🙂 x

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Cherrysoup · 14/07/2026 12:53

Well done for getting out and yes, thank god for Clare's Law!

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