My husband does what he’s meant to do on paper. He recently helped me move my young son from one apartment to another. He also helped me clear out my Dads flat when he died. On paper it sounds amazing. In reality, whilst he does the job he is SO moody whilst doing it and it hammers home the point that he’s doing you a massive favour. He moans constantly, slams things about and goes into countless moods. When clearing my dad’s flat recently I felt that whilst he was an enormous help I was constantly worried about his mood instead of my own.