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Hmm… what to think ?

5 replies

Sunshineismyhappy · 25/06/2026 07:44

just looking on thoughts really….. I had a date with someone last week, he lives hour and a half from me.

he came to me, had lunch , walk chats ect.. lasting nearly 6 hrs.

sent me a nice message when he got home, that we’d like to see each other again.. but there hasn’t actually been any plans to meet up again. But we’re still chatting and calling everyday ? It’s strange ? I’m new to this, came out of a 10 year relationship so advice please..

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DistantEarlyWarning · 25/06/2026 07:47

Have you suggested something, or are you waiting for him to do that?

Idontjetwashthefucker · 25/06/2026 07:49

Id have replied to his nice message with "yes I had a nice time too, let me know when you're free and we can arrange another"

SilenceLaySteadily · 25/06/2026 10:01

There's nothing overly weird about that. Maybe he's just enjoying talking to you?

If you want to meet up again why not think of a nice date and ask? There's no need to overthink it.

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 25/06/2026 14:58

"just looking on thoughts really….. I had a date with someone last week, she lives hour and a half from me.
I drove to hers, had lunch , walk chats etc.. lasting nearly 6 hrs.
I sent her a message when I got home, that I’d like to see her again.. We’re still chatting and calling everyday, so I presume she's interested in me, but she's not suggested we meet up at all ? It’s strange ?"

I'd imagine is what he's posted on Pistonheads right now. And if so, you're both a pair of eejits.

If you want to see this man again, then arrange a date. That's kind of how it works.

AmIbeingscammed · 25/06/2026 15:00

Take the lead . Suggest a few dates when you are free and see what he says . I think you're overthinking this.

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