Not really sure about the right location for this so im sorry if this is incorrect!
I broke up with my ex last year and afterwards I found out she had showed and sent friends private stuff online of me. Its completely unprovoked and the thing that was sent round basically makes me look bad. It was edited and showed myself looking really small and soft. Sorry for the crudeness but im so not a shower like that and its basically made me so anxious and self conscious that the last twice ive slept with someone I haven't been able to get it up! Embarrassed degraded and anxious about next time. Advice or blunt truth I guess im looking for .😥