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Casual dating safety advice for dummies please!

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Ravensandarsnic · 17/05/2026 22:13

I feel really naive and a bit stupid asking this here, but I’m divorced now and while I don’t want a relationship again I would like to maybe meet someone casually. BUT I haven’t ever done adult dating- I met my ex when I was 15 (I’m now 40). I feel clueless about the adult dating world and I’m terrified of meeting someone and ending up on a true crime podcast lol. Anyone got any tips about staying safe (I’m clued up on contraception, thanks! 😂 I’m thinking more physical safety here). Tips on what kind of people to avoid on apps? 101 ways to not get abducted and murdered? Thank you!

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UpDownAllAround1 · 17/05/2026 22:20

Tell a friend when meeting someone

DropOfffArtiste · 17/05/2026 22:22

Arrange to meet in a public place with your own transportation. Screen for unpleasant/sexual comments through chat and immediately block.
Don't give out personal information too early on.
Trust your gut instinct. Read The Gift of Fear.

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