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Porn dilemma

9 replies

chickencurry123 · 06/05/2026 21:52

So my husband is 18 years older than me. I’m 51 and he is 68. He left his phone on the bed the other day when we were changing the sheets and his phone save screen pinged up saying ‘free porn sights’. I don’t know what to think!

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Soxy2154 · 06/05/2026 22:07

He's a man, they all do it. It doesn't bother me in the slightest.

chickencurry123 · 06/05/2026 22:07

🙏

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SergeantWrinkles · 06/05/2026 22:09

Soxy2154 · 06/05/2026 22:07

He's a man, they all do it. It doesn't bother me in the slightest.

Raise your standards. Porn reduces women to commodities. It affects the way men see women societally. Women become things. Porn is anathema to women’s equality.

CatRestaurant · 06/05/2026 22:11

Soxy2154 · 06/05/2026 22:07

He's a man, they all do it. It doesn't bother me in the slightest.

How sad.

chickencurry123 · 06/05/2026 22:12

That’s how I see it. I’m disgusted to be honest x

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KeeleyJ · 06/05/2026 22:16

I would expect him to sort his notifications out. Imagine that pinging up in a public place 😳.

Substance · 06/05/2026 23:36

Your first sentence says your husband is 18 years older than you. This is obviously important to you, as you've mentioned it prominently. But I'm curious why you think it is relevant?

MrThorpeHazell · 07/05/2026 10:55

Can we be exact here. Was it something he had saved or was in a pop-up advert telling him of "services" he could obtain by a simple click?

Because if it's the latter, I get these pop-ups all the time on any sort of page that the algorithm thinks is "male orientated" from fishing to model railways.

A pop-up for "Live Jasmine" is a particular pain.

1983Louise · 07/05/2026 12:39

I get these pop ups, the joys of being on-line, I don't watch porn by the way. I think more worrying you haven't spoke about it with him.

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