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Trying to get help scared please help

11 replies

Hippychickbbbb · 03/05/2026 14:11

Ive spoken to my neighbour who said hes abusive shes having a meeting with my social worker to sort out the situation as its toxic he dosent like me talking alot about anything im scared as ive lived with him for twenty years but i cant bare to be around him now im not going to talk to him hes a asswhole i apologized 4 times as i felt bad by what he said he said i was going on i cant win

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Endofyear · 03/05/2026 15:21

I'm sorry OP, it sounds like you are living with a partner who's abusive towards you? If you're scared, please reach out to your social worker or you can call Samaritans or Women's Aid for advice and support -https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan/talk-us-phone/

https://womensaid.org.uk/information-support/

If you feel in any immediate danger, you can call 999 and ask for the police.

If you need to leave, is there any family or friends that you could stay with in the short term?

Talk to us on the phone

Whatever you're going through, call us free any time, from any phone, on 116 123.

https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan/talk-us-phone/

CleanShirt · 03/05/2026 15:26

OP posts constantly about the same issue and doesn't take any advice.

OP, please seek therapy.

Boomer55 · 03/05/2026 16:41

What has your neighbour got to do with this? Social workers won’t discuss you with her. 🤷‍♀️

Hippychickbbbb · 03/05/2026 18:07

I do take advice ive seen three councilors i aplogised to him 4 times he said i was going on i said sorry for apologizing 4 times he rolled his eyes

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TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 03/05/2026 18:10

Hippychickbbbb · 03/05/2026 18:07

I do take advice ive seen three councilors i aplogised to him 4 times he said i was going on i said sorry for apologizing 4 times he rolled his eyes

On all your other threads you were advised to move on and move out.

You've been divorced since 2019.

ktopfwcv · 03/05/2026 18:51

What are you looking for this time?

Hippychickbbbb · 03/05/2026 18:58

I wasnt divorced since 2019

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Hippychickbbbb · 03/05/2026 19:00

Ive done nothing wrong he said i could still live with him as a opion

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Bananalanacake · 04/05/2026 06:52

Are you able to move out, as in do you have enough money to rent alone or live in a House share.

Hippychickbbbb · 04/05/2026 12:46

I don’t want to live alone

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Tillow4ever · 04/05/2026 12:52

This is one poster it is worth doing an advanced search on. The style of writing looked familiar, as did the name, so I looked.

According to the OP she is now divorced - so not sure who she is talking about being abusive.

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