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Should be on date- is he flakey

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userhallball · 23/04/2026 17:39

So I meet a guy last Saturday lunchtime, got on well, seem to be after same thing etc we have messaged since not loads but once or twice a day, we arranged to see each other this evening but hadn’t yet decide what we were doing .

yesterday he messaged and I noticed when I replied I only got 1 grey tick it’s stayed like that since then today at 4.30pm he messaged and said

hey you, can we do another night xx

then noticed that 2 ticks had appeared, so I’m wondering if he’s blocking me in between

it just all seems a bit flakey especially at this early stage

OP posts:
KaySam · 23/04/2026 17:41

I’d block him,he’s playing games

TwelvePinkDolphins · 23/04/2026 17:41

Honestly I wouldn’t bother, he’ll only get worse.

Damnd · 23/04/2026 17:42

Married

userhallball · 23/04/2026 18:06

Yeah I think you all are onto something I just feel bored with him already

OP posts:
Brightbluesomething · 23/04/2026 18:22

He night have been in an area with poor signal so that part doesn’t bother me. However not locking in the arrangements for a date means he’s not particularly fussed. Instead of confirming he postpones also means that he’s not that bothered.
When they’re interested, you know. He isn’t so I’d pass.

Mary46 · 23/04/2026 20:26

Yes flaky op. Had this in friend too flaky/non comittal. Let him go

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