What does this sound like?

[electra]

I have been seeing a guy who recently has started to squeeze me really hard repeatedly - it's almost like a kind of ritual and it hurts my ribs and he squeezes all the air out of me. Everyone I know says get the hell out of there. Why would someone do this?

madamez - it sounds like you have knowledge of this as a type of behaviour? The problem is that he didn't do this to begin with at all - he just started it out of the blue. At first I put it down to a possible cultural difference (he's italian).

Well I haven't seen him but I am finding it difficult I wish I didn't have these bizarre attractions.

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It sounds to me like you're trying to excuse his behaviour. It is naff all to do with him being Italian. It is to do with him being dangerous.

No, I'm not - I thought that when it first happened but now I do realise it's misguided.

Well I have got out of it, but I have had to take measures that mean I can't contact him again. It is odd how strangely addictive this became.......but anyway.