Why do I want him to contact me? I have children with my ex and he hasn’t seen them for 3 years, last spoke to him last year, but not seen them in 3 years, despite this why do I want him to contact me? I haven’t heard from him in a year and I thought he would make contact at Xmas, then didnt, birthdays and still he didn’t, I should be furious with him which I am so why do I want him to contact me? Is there something wrong with me? I guess im wondering why he doesn’t care about them? Why doesn’t he want to know them? Has anyone been through this?