waning sex life here. Complicated lives.
10 year old sleeps in our bed as he’s not happy alone. We have tried everything and exhausted all options - sleeping with his siblings, sleeping on our floor on inflatable etc. Sleeping beside him. We have now ordered a large bed for his room
and we will move there once it arrives but it’s weeks away!! As he will be asleep in our bed (previously OH and mine now sons and mine :/) and won’t notice then.
OH sleeps in spare room as he has snoring issues and gets up at 5 every day to workout so doesn’t went to disturb me.
works a full on job very focused on work. He rarely WFH on occasion we have that opportunity but other than that nothing, nada.
Im feeling a little frustrated as I know it’s a difficult situation but feels disconnected and unhealthy. Not sure how OH manages denies he does anything but I’m sure he must do. Always a tricky topic somehow and he isn’t keen on discussing. How am I to survive as a woman with sexual needs ??! Anyone been in this scenario that can share some hope!!