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Fiance adding women on Instagram

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KittyRockstar · 05/03/2026 22:14

My so called fiancé has all of a sudden added a few women on Instagram. Anyway one of them messaged me today to say he'd messaged asking where she was from! Am I right to be pissed off? Please be kind as I'm so upset about it all

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PinkPomeloFruit · 05/03/2026 22:16

He’s done you a favour by showing you his true colours before you get married
Dump him, it won’t get better.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 05/03/2026 22:17

Do NOT marry this shitbag.

At least you've found out before the wedding.

fruitbrewhaha · 05/03/2026 22:18

That’s odd. But I have no idea if my dp was following any women on instagram. I don’t look.

Are they persona accounts or women selling something or interesting reels? Or is it because they are attractive?

Ultimately it doesn’t sound like you trust him which makes me think you need to rethink your engagement.

onelumporthree · 05/03/2026 22:18

You need to thank the woman who has clearly worked out what sort of man he is and has given you the heads-up.

KittyRockstar · 05/03/2026 22:23

fruitbrewhaha · 05/03/2026 22:18

That’s odd. But I have no idea if my dp was following any women on instagram. I don’t look.

Are they persona accounts or women selling something or interesting reels? Or is it because they are attractive?

Ultimately it doesn’t sound like you trust him which makes me think you need to rethink your engagement.

Edited

Women with their boobs out. Funnily enough he hates me dressing that way 🤔

OP posts:
Pinkissmart · 05/03/2026 22:29

fruitbrewhaha · 05/03/2026 22:18

That’s odd. But I have no idea if my dp was following any women on instagram. I don’t look.

Are they persona accounts or women selling something or interesting reels? Or is it because they are attractive?

Ultimately it doesn’t sound like you trust him which makes me think you need to rethink your engagement.

Edited

For heaven’s sake- stop blaming the OP for her fiancé’s questionable behaviour 🙄

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 05/03/2026 22:30

fruitbrewhaha · 05/03/2026 22:18

That’s odd. But I have no idea if my dp was following any women on instagram. I don’t look.

Are they persona accounts or women selling something or interesting reels? Or is it because they are attractive?

Ultimately it doesn’t sound like you trust him which makes me think you need to rethink your engagement.

Edited

Well of course she doesn't bloody trust him!
I wouldn't, either.

BauhausOfEliott · 05/03/2026 22:34

KittyRockstar · 05/03/2026 22:23

Women with their boobs out. Funnily enough he hates me dressing that way 🤔

He sounds like a cunt, then

KittyRockstar · 05/03/2026 22:42

BauhausOfEliott · 05/03/2026 22:34

He sounds like a cunt, then

A full weight cunt! Thank you for making me laugh. I need it at the moment

OP posts:
Missj25 · 06/03/2026 20:34

KittyRockstar · 05/03/2026 22:14

My so called fiancé has all of a sudden added a few women on Instagram. Anyway one of them messaged me today to say he'd messaged asking where she was from! Am I right to be pissed off? Please be kind as I'm so upset about it all

Are you right to be pissed off ?
Well the man you are supposed to marry has messsged another woman, therefore he is showing you he has form for cheating.
That’s about the size of it I’d say 🤷🏻‍♀️.
Do you want to marry a man who will cheat on you OP ?

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