Looking for a little reassurance.
My wife has had a male friend for around 6 months, which has never really bothered me. They work together for a few hours a week and sometimes message, but pretty harmless stuff, films, books, etc.
Last week a someone who works in the same place told me that he overheard a conversation , during which the friend asked her to put her hair down, she asked why and he said she looked nicer. Apparently she did then let it down, and they continued talking work stuff.
For some reason this really knaws at me, but have I any reason to be bothered?