Serious question

[Toilettalk]

How much time does your DH spend on the loo - mine seems excessive. He'll go multiple times a day and can spend I'm guessing a good 30mins in there at a time i'm starting to feel suspicious. We have two small children but this is definitely not a case of hide and seek.

That seems excessive.

You know the man, what’s your guess? Porn? Avoiding family life? Messaging OW? Gambling?

He’s either hiding from family life, looking at porn gambling or messaging another woman etc - short of the sudden development of extreme bowel issues there’s no other explanation.

Sometimes for a guy 20 mins on the loo in some solitude is bliss. But this does seem a bit excessive