So we've been together 11 yrs, he's now retired and we moved abroad 4 yrs ago which at the start seemed great, new life etc but I was the one finding work to keep us afloat, worked away from home a little which was hard. Last year I found a local job but hated it. Partner just stays at home renovating or gardening and drank a lot more. I got fed up with it after my dd went to university. I found a job back in the UK and Im back here now.
Partner just complains all the time! I cant see me going back there because I want to work and have a normal life. He doesn't want to integrate into the foreign lifestyle and I cant see the point in living there if we don't. He says he doesn't want to come back to the UK.
My animals are there and all my personal stuff.
I feel sad but I cant see us coming back together.
Should I just call it a day?