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Partner and feet photos

41 replies

palermosun · 26/01/2026 13:48

My partner and I are both in our 50s. We’ve been together for a few years and are thinking of moving in together. Objectively, he’s in a much better financial position, and is about to retire. My finances are modest but I can support myself. I work full time.
Recently, he’s been talking a lot about extra source of income, how he’d like me to work less and have more time for the relationship.
One of his ideas is to start selling my feet photos online. He’s been quite vocal about it and it finally dawned on me that he really means it.
I’ve now formed my own opinion about it, but I’d be curious to know your thoughts.

OP posts:
palermosun · 26/01/2026 20:59

@RunningJo he’s got plenty of absolutely lovely other ideas, this is the only one that’s just so off.
I’m just processing my thoughts and emotions, and the kind of conversation we need to have.

OP posts:
Proccy · 26/01/2026 21:02

Weirdo, dump him

ilovepixie · 26/01/2026 21:06

What websites are best for feet selling? Asking for a friend 😂😂

palermosun · 26/01/2026 21:06

@BadgernTheGarden he’s seen several posts on social media about it. And I do have nice feet. But - no. Gross.
This chat has been helpful.

OP posts:
UninitendedShark · 26/01/2026 21:08

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 26/01/2026 14:18

I worked with a woman who sold used shoes in Ebay. Well worn, sweaty, smelly ... she made quite a bit, friends used to give her their old shoes. True!

I know an air hostess that sells her used tights. The long haul ones sell better than the short haul…

But it’s a no from me OP. And I’d be insulted too.

Bananalanacake · 26/01/2026 21:14

Don't move in with him, do what you want with your free time, don't let him make you feel shit if you don't want to spend every waking moment you're not working with him.

Lowbuy2026 · 26/01/2026 21:15

I'm actually worrying about the shoes I've sold on vinted now!! 🤢

Send him one photo of your feet... going quickly out the door away from him!!!

ChurchWindows · 26/01/2026 21:31

StrawberryWater · 26/01/2026 13:55

I know someone who puts her feet in all kinds of things on OFs and while she makes a lot of money she also has to put a ton of effort, time and money in. It costs her a small fortune keeping her feet looking so nice.

I'm boggling at what these all kinds of things might be.
A bucket?
Blancmange?
Swarfega?

I'd dip my bunions in blancmange for money. I have one thick yellow toenail where a calf stood on it. Do you think it will be career damaging or a USP?

BauhausOfEliott · 26/01/2026 21:32

Apart from anything, he’s incredibly naive if he thinks you’ll make any money from this. There’s a lot more to it than just ‘selling feet pics’. Men can get pictures of feet anywhere for nothing. You’d have to interact with followers and do niche requests, among other things.

ChurchWindows · 26/01/2026 21:36

Seriously though OP.

Say it out loud, "Alright love, do you fancy moving in with me, give up your job and financial security. You could be at my beck and call all day and I could take a few rum photos of your plates of meat and flog them for beer money."

Strange old request, recipe for disaster or both?

MrFluffyDogIsMyBestFriend · 26/01/2026 22:11

Men seem to think that it's really easy for women to make money doing things like this. You'd never make any money from foot photos but for anything similar, you're having to deal with hundreds of messages from revolting men.

Wickedlittledancer · 26/01/2026 23:39

Starlight1979 · 26/01/2026 14:31

What do you mean "puts her feet in all kinds of things"?! I'm slightly disgusted but also intrigued😂

This thread is making me laugh. They do put their feet in things, like having oil or custard dripping through their toes. That’s at the tame end.

@Starlight1979 ,,how do yoh get proper sexual with your feet? Well you take someone else’s body parts and you do stuff with your feet to them or in them.

op how do things come up in his social media feed about feet fetishes, I can honestly say I have never had such a thing come up in my social media, have you? There is something the man isn’t telling you. Thay shit does not just randomly appear.

and I can promise I’ve never ever looked into this or done it, I simply had a rather enlightening and in depth conversation with a young female relative who did look into it. As she is on benefits and has kids. She backed away from the idea fast.

and what’s worse is the people who pay want you to do more and more disgusting things and offer money for it. It’s a cess pit.

if someone just wants to look at pics of feet there are plenty on line for free, you don’t need to pay. When they Pay it’s as it is stuff you can’t get for free and you need to pay for. And you’re not maki’ng money unless you do.

Wickedlittledancer · 26/01/2026 23:47

On a seperate note, and this maybe outing, I have met a man with a foot fetish. Outing as it was a memorable event for all concerned.

A male work colleague after a formal social event, where he got rather tipsy, but not drunk, he was a colleague I barely knew and had spoken to about 2 or 3 times, briefly, and I was sitting with a group of about 8 colleagues, wandered over, sat down at our table and started saying I bet you’ve lovely feet, haven’t you, and then went on, genuinely for about a full five mins about how lovely my feet must be, and how he’d love to see them and how he couldn’t stop looking at them in my heels. He was all googly eyed and excited as he was going on about how lovely my feet must be,

we all just sat there in silence watching and listening to him. I just sat there saying things like ummm and ehmmm, when he was done he stood up and wandered off again, we all burst out laughing and someone said Christ he’s a foot fetishist. But it was so so odd and unexpected, first and only time I’ve ever had it happen,

TremblingMolars · 27/01/2026 00:42

Larsa Pippen does this and claims to make a lot of money doing it 🤷🏻‍♀️

GreenGodiva · 27/01/2026 06:37

Starlight1979 · 26/01/2026 14:31

What do you mean "puts her feet in all kinds of things"?! I'm slightly disgusted but also intrigued😂

I heard about an old school friend who did feet things on line and I thought it was hilarious until somebody said that she did videos of her toes being inserted into various people body parts. You couldn’t pay me enough to stick my big toe (or any toe!) into a blokes hairy hoop. It doesn’t end there and I can’t even type the actual description but if you want more info and are very brave search waffle stomping . I stupidly thought it was some sort of breakfast event and it’s not.

BauhausOfEliott · 27/01/2026 10:32

TremblingMolars · 27/01/2026 00:42

Larsa Pippen does this and claims to make a lot of money doing it 🤷🏻‍♀️

Yes, but she's selling them to people who know who she is and what she looks like and she almost certainly has a million very expensive pairs of shoes to 'model' as well.

That isn't the case for an ordinary person.

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