So my boyfriend and I grew up in the same town and only a few blocks away from eachother so we've basically known eachother our entire lives. We ran into each other in April of 2024 (while I was still with my sons father) and literally as soon as i saw him i was attracted to him. My sons father and i seperated in June after 13 years and by September I was talking to my current bf we became official November 1st of 2024. Previously my hair was dyed dark brown (born a dishwater blonde). But I decided to go back my natural color blonde right before my current and I began talking. Since then my hair has stayed the same but I wanted to dye it back brown for the fall/winter but my bf informed me that if he dye my hair dark he won't speak to me anymore. But every girl he has EVER been with has dark hair. Recently we had issues and he told me if I dont act right hes going out on a date with a much younger female who too has dark hair. I'm so confused on how he can threaten to end our relationship if I dye my hair dark but also threaten to go on a date with another female with dark hair! Can someone help me before I go nuts??