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Indecent proposal (a 'what if' scenario)

55 replies

exhaustDAD · 13/01/2026 22:17

Disclaimer: No, this is not something that is happening to me or someone I know, I am just curious to see what people think about it. We are all friends here, without our real names, on the internet, you can be honest :)
My wife has seen one of these silly videos on instagram where they ask people how much money they would cheat on their partners for... I just said it reminded me of the movie Indecent Proposal... And that made me think. I was a teenager when I saw that movie, and back then I used to think that everything has a price. I scoff at the mindset I used to have, but we've all been kids at one point :)

Would you say you'd have a price you'd cheat on your partner for? This will mean nothing, it's just a silly topic, but what would be your limit when you say, fine, for that amount, I would. You know, not some "bajillion-gazillion times infinite" type of nonsense, but the "minimum", if you will.

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AOBMGB · 13/01/2026 22:18

YABU 🙂

Arlanymor · 13/01/2026 22:20

If any amount of money would make me cheat on someone then I clearly shouldn't be with them!

AgentPidge · 13/01/2026 22:20

Prostitution? No thanks.

blankcanvas3 · 13/01/2026 22:21

100 mill I reckon. DH would probs encourage me for that amount

Andepeda · 13/01/2026 22:21

You've got too much time on your hands mate.

MeTooOverHere · 13/01/2026 22:22

I'm a 63YO widow. So I don't have a partner to cheat on and if someone offered me a million dollars to have sex with him, I'd die laughing first.

Nightshade9 · 13/01/2026 22:22

I think the reality of this is it’s very dependent on your personal financial situation. I am fortunate enough to be comfortable and secure therefore I don’t think there is currently an amount.

However, I can imagine that if I was struggling to feed or clothes my children there would almost certainly be a price at which I would be prepared to do it, and almost certainly a lot less than £1 million.

vodkaredbullgirl · 13/01/2026 22:23

No thanks 😆

Itsmetheflamingo · 13/01/2026 22:24

The cheating isn’t the point for me. If I was single I wouldn’t have sex for money.

even if you forced yourself to do it it would be.. like agreeing to rape surely?! Really weird idea.

ElectoralControversy · 13/01/2026 22:24

It's a pretty old joke innit

A guy walks up to a woman at a bar, and says, "What if I offer you a million dollars to sleep with me?"
The woman thinks about it and says "yes, I would agree to that!"
Guy says, "What if I change my offer to a dollar instead?"
The woman is aghast, "What kind of woman do you think I am?"
"We've established that, now we're haggling over the price"

Purlant · 13/01/2026 22:25

This sounds very lame, but I really love my life. We are comfortable, love each other, and have such fun times together as a family and as a couple. No amount of money would tempt me to risk it, I’m not sure I’d even want that much money as sounds alienating from my friends and family.

peacefulpeach · 13/01/2026 22:27

blankcanvas3 · 13/01/2026 22:21

100 mill I reckon. DH would probs encourage me for that amount

😂😂 yeah basically

GreenJeIIy · 13/01/2026 22:28

You need to rewatch the film, it's soooooo dated. Really doesn't age well at all

exhaustDAD · 13/01/2026 22:36

GreenJeIIy · 13/01/2026 22:28

You need to rewatch the film, it's soooooo dated. Really doesn't age well at all

I don't doubt it :D I only remember the premise, but I have a feeling I'd be facepalming a lot during a rewatch

OP posts:
exhaustDAD · 13/01/2026 22:36

Andepeda · 13/01/2026 22:21

You've got too much time on your hands mate.

This is not untrue! :)

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IndigoIsMyFavouriteColour · 13/01/2026 22:37

A million I reckon. Enough for us all to be comfortable indefinitely because of it.

SunflowerTed · 13/01/2026 22:38

Andepeda · 13/01/2026 22:21

You've got too much time on your hands mate.

hasnt he just

Andepeda · 13/01/2026 22:38

exhaustDAD · 13/01/2026 22:36

This is not untrue! :)

How come you're exhausted then? Go to bed!

HoseGoblin · 13/01/2026 22:39

Nothing, I don't value money highly enough that any amount would tempt me away from one of the few things in life money can't buy.

Dollymylove · 13/01/2026 22:40

Too old for all that malarkey now, Im nearly 65.
However.......properly about half a million as long as my partner didnt know, although for that amount of money he'd probably be ok with it 🤣🥰

DeckAllTheFlippinHalls · 13/01/2026 22:45

It’s not cheating as such though, is it? It’s sex for money. And no, unless I was in a very very desperate situation and couldn’t feed children etc etc, no I wouldn’t sell myself.

Also… Robert Redford wouldn’t have to pay me anything, let alone a million.

Arlanymor · 13/01/2026 22:47

DeckAllTheFlippinHalls · 13/01/2026 22:45

It’s not cheating as such though, is it? It’s sex for money. And no, unless I was in a very very desperate situation and couldn’t feed children etc etc, no I wouldn’t sell myself.

Also… Robert Redford wouldn’t have to pay me anything, let alone a million.

Well he did die last year, so...!

Maddy70 · 13/01/2026 22:50

Good question. Transactional sex isn't emotional so if a sum of money would set us up for life then yeah definitely. Free for Robert Redford obviously

Purplecatshopaholic · 13/01/2026 22:53

As long as my partner didn’t find out? And the bloke looked like Robert Redford in the film? Reckon I could throw my morals aside for a night for 1 million smackers, lol.

DeckAllTheFlippinHalls · 13/01/2026 22:53

Arlanymor · 13/01/2026 22:47

Well he did die last year, so...!

Very true. To be clear, I was referring to him being very much alive 😂