15 years married feels very insecure

[Bonjovirocks123]

Hi i hope this its ok iam in bits because i dont know how to feel about it iam i being a drama queen reading too much into it ??? Do you think if you husbud/partner calling someone beautiful in a messege to make this person feel good about them selfs its ok saying in a joke its ok we can runway again to make this person feel better its it ok as ?

Your husband has told another woman they're beautiful and jokes about running away with her? Probably need more context but it sounds like he could be overstepping a bit.

Definitely not ok.

Who did your husband say was beautiful and in what context? And do you mean he told the same person that they would run away together like romantically and away from you?

If so, that’s obviously not OK and you’re well within you rights to be upset! How did you find out about the messages?

Of course he shouldn't be saying these things to another woman OP.

It's not his job to make another woman feel good about herself and provide her with emotional support.