Telegram - is he cheating?

[Kelly1999x]

I can’t sleep tonight and seen add for clarity check or something to check someone’s accounts linked to phonenunber. Husbands number came up with telegram? Last seen start of December. He is going to work away for a while today so In freaking out. Should I ask to see? He did cheat when we were dating many many years ago.

I use telegram for a lot of things, I'm in a number of group chats for various interests, not personal messaging

Is he hiding your phone from you? If he's leaving it around for you to check, then he's nothing to hide. My ex husband used to keep his phone in his pocket at all times and I didn't have access to it until he forgot to take it to work with him. That's when I saw lots of dirty messages from some woman. Seeing as he's cheated in the past, I'd be wanting access to his phone. You're not being unreasonable. Good luck.

Having a messaging app on his phone is not proof of anything. You don't even know if he uses it. I absolutely would not suspect anyone of cheating based on that.

So you put his number in an app or something and they told you he was on telegram? Is that right or am I misreading?
Being on any app doesn't give you proof of cheating. Do you have any reason other than the event years ago to think he is? What made you check his number?

Sorry OP but I couldn't make much sense of your post - are you saying that you've looked at his phone and he has the telegram app? That doesn't seem like evidence of cheating?

Are you saying you did a check on his phone number to see if it’s associated with any apps / accounts? That’s a bit weird.