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How soon?

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Brokendreams1235 · 29/12/2025 08:44

My husband spent Christmas annoyed at me because someone put gravy on his dinner and he thought I should tell them he doesn’t like it. How soon should I pack my bags?

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AhBiscuits · 29/12/2025 08:47

Who was the someone? I think if I was with DH's friends or relatives it would be reasonable for him to mention I didn't like it. I wouldn't be annoyed if he didn't though.

Willsmer · 29/12/2025 09:04

How about him telling them ? Just a thought.

Makemeanonymous · 29/12/2025 09:47

Does he automatically blame you for everything OP? That's what it sounds like.

Why didn't HE tell the person serving out the meals " No gravy for me please" ? Does he speak a different language? Does he suffer from mutism?

Bananalanacake · 29/12/2025 11:21

Are you sort of joking or is he always a miserable git.

MamaJenni · 29/12/2025 11:55

Im guessing this isnt the only thing hes done in the relationship

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