Our marriage is over in my eyes. Together nearly 14 years, 4 of those married and we have a toddler, a little girl who is my world. DH and I have no emotional connection or intimacy any more, he is work obsessed and wont share money fairly. I feel utterly lonely. But I don’t want to split and have to have times where he has her, particularly weekends. I have no idea what to do. I am so unhappy. I think he would want a reasonable amount of custody. And I don’t know if I can afford a mortgage on my own, even though I work full time