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Anyone want a no contact club?

11 replies

WallyHilloughby · 19/12/2025 22:26

So I’ve been in a bit of an unsatisfying situationship since September and I have already lowered my expectations ridiculously and can’t continue giving access to such a tosser. I know I will really struggle though so wanted to know if anyone else wanted to do it with me?

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Fuggleup · 19/12/2025 22:27

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WallyHilloughby · 19/12/2025 22:51

Because I’m such a people pleaser when inevitably drops in my messages because he wants validation I will feel like replying. I can’t block him as he’s a work contact 😫😫

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MyRoseRaven · 19/12/2025 22:52

Rename him on your contacts as Tosser or Do Not Contact and be strong. Only you can decide to respond or not so decide and stick with it

MrsDoubtingMyself · 19/12/2025 22:54

WallyHilloughby · 19/12/2025 22:51

Because I’m such a people pleaser when inevitably drops in my messages because he wants validation I will feel like replying. I can’t block him as he’s a work contact 😫😫

Get therapy. Grow a backbone. Learn to believe that you're worth more.

itsnotalwaysthateasy · 19/12/2025 23:19

You are so much greater than the crumbs he gives.
Go out, enjoy life, find people whose company you enjoy
There's always Feeld .

Catza · 19/12/2025 23:36

Look up DadHugsForYourSoul on Facebook or Insta. Loads of people in a similar boat there.

WallyHilloughby · 20/12/2025 09:20

Catza · 19/12/2025 23:36

Look up DadHugsForYourSoul on Facebook or Insta. Loads of people in a similar boat there.

Sounds great will have a look x

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WallyHilloughby · 20/12/2025 09:20

Inevitably he’s just done the ‘hi how are you message’
he’s been archived

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Bourneo · 20/12/2025 09:24

Block and delete his number

WallyHilloughby · 20/12/2025 09:36

Bourneo · 20/12/2025 09:24

Block and delete his number

Not being rude but I did explain why this wasn’t possible

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CaffeinatedSeagull · 20/12/2025 10:27

I assume you’ve told him you don’t want contact from him (unless it’s work orientated) and he’s ignoring that?

If so, then just tell him you’ll be going to HR if he keeps harassing you.

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