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Is this normal?

2 replies

Sonya2017 · 05/12/2025 11:21

Hi

I(Female) have been with my partner(Male) for nearly 10 years now and we get on very well and have a great life etc.

Just recently however, I have been getting daily thoughts about having sex with Women!

It's just come on out of nowhere and I am not sure what to think or what to do about this.

I do find other Women beautiful, but I never considered it to be a sexual thing- if that makes sense?

Just feel really guilty for thinking these things.

OP posts:
Mysticguru · 05/12/2025 14:20

Apparently there are a lot of women who have these reflections during their lifetime. A scroll through the sex board will confirm this.
I have known a few who where bi curious and went on to become bi sexual.

RightSheSaid · 05/12/2025 14:25

Don't worry about it @Sonya2017 . You are allowed to have feelings. You are allowed to find someone attractive male or female. You are in a relationship not dead from the waist down. You are just not allowed to act on those feelings.

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