Texting less ? Is it me just being anxious?

[Sunshineismyhappy]

Hi !

been chatting to this guy for a month tomorrow, met up around 4 times I’d say… for walks & a drink round his.

but chat everyday on the phone ( messages )

I’ve noticed though that the messages are getting a little less…. I mean still messages but not as much ? Is this normal would you say, just how men are ? 🤣
I think it may just be me, being anxious ? I just really want it to work out

He’s still contacting you daily, so I’d say you’re probably being anxious. It can be a sign his interest is going but I think he’d not contact everyday if this was the case.
Constant messaging is never going to be sustainable long term.

Maybe he likes you a lot and doesn't want to seem to pushy or controlling.

There isn't a universal that 'men are'. Some men are very chatty, some are not. So there's no way of us saying how he feels. If he's still getting in touch, and you aren't doing all the running, and he's keen to meet up and fun to be with, then don't worry.