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Just sex or what?

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Negroniqueen0 · 14/11/2025 20:15

Ended up meeting up with a guy I had been talking to OLD last weekend. We had both been out drinking separately all day so things got quite drunken and one thing led to another. It was my first date after a LTR and I think I just needed a bit of fun. I initially thought that would be it but he's been texting everyday and wants to go for dinner and drinks this weekend (probably wants a repeat of the sex too). I guess in your opinion, is there any way something like this could turn into something serious or would you just go with the expectation that he just wants sex a few more times so don't expect more?

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ForTipsyFinch · 14/11/2025 20:25

How do you know you even want anything from him yet, you barely know him 🤷‍♀️ nobody here can really comment on that, casual sex can lead to more but I do think it’s a bad idea to do it in the hopes it leads to more.

Negroniqueen0 · 14/11/2025 20:30

ForTipsyFinch · 14/11/2025 20:25

How do you know you even want anything from him yet, you barely know him 🤷‍♀️ nobody here can really comment on that, casual sex can lead to more but I do think it’s a bad idea to do it in the hopes it leads to more.

That's a good point, I dont know that I do 😂 I think I just need to relax and see what happens, overthinking it a little and definitely didn't do that for it to lead to something more was expecting the opposite!

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Ruggerlass · 14/11/2025 20:43

If you like him I’d go with the flow and see how it goes

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