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Sexy Playlist

75 replies

Chatonette · 13/11/2025 12:25

Please help me brainstorm the must-have songs that you’d include on a sex music playlist.

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AgnesX · 13/11/2025 13:01

Sexy boy by Air (have a listen to Moon Safari). Anunabeats do any amount of ambient tunes if it's just chill that you're looking for.

TheBirches · 13/11/2025 13:03

You mean stuff like Marvin Gaye's 'Let's Get It On'? The Divinyls' 'I Touch Myself'? Jane Birkin and Serge Gainsbourg 'Je t'aime'?

Is the intention to musically inveigle someone into wanting to have sex with you, or to provide an appropriately stirring soundtrack for when the sex is actually taking place?

Chatonette · 13/11/2025 13:07

TheBirches · 13/11/2025 13:03

You mean stuff like Marvin Gaye's 'Let's Get It On'? The Divinyls' 'I Touch Myself'? Jane Birkin and Serge Gainsbourg 'Je t'aime'?

Is the intention to musically inveigle someone into wanting to have sex with you, or to provide an appropriately stirring soundtrack for when the sex is actually taking place?

to provide an appropriately stirring soundtrack for when the sex is actually taking place

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TooBigForMyBoots · 13/11/2025 13:09

Barry White. Sorted.

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 13/11/2025 13:10

FKA Twigs - Two weeks
Portishead - Roads
London Grammar - California Soul

UpDownAllAround1 · 13/11/2025 13:10

Love Bites - Def Leppard

Rainbowcat77 · 13/11/2025 13:15

Chatonette · 13/11/2025 13:07

to provide an appropriately stirring soundtrack for when the sex is actually taking place

Is this really a “thing”?? I think I’d be a little bit unnerved if somebody produced a pre-prepared playlist ahead of sex.

GarlicHound · 13/11/2025 13:15

Depends what you're into, innit.
My sexiest sex song ever is Enigma's Principles of Lust. Can't explain, it just does it every time!

Screamingabdabz · 13/11/2025 13:18

Ugh. Music puts me off. I start following the lyrics.

GarlicHound · 13/11/2025 13:21

Screamingabdabz · 13/11/2025 13:18

Ugh. Music puts me off. I start following the lyrics.

Yeah, this is why none of the unquestionably sexy soul songs work for me! Great in the preceding stages, but I don't want to be singing along during copulation 😂

Lillygolightly · 13/11/2025 13:24

Try this @Chatonette

There are songs you will recognise on the mix but there isn’t lots of vocals on it so it makes for great background music with a sort of sexy yet chill vibe.

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https://youtu.be/S05IJyKyAjo?si=lJWzY0L1yyHIlsUK

Tomatocutwithazigzagedge · 13/11/2025 13:31

Morcheeba - Gimme your love

Galt McDermot - Coffee Cold is also good, or the Handsome Boy Modelling School version.

- YouTube

Enjoy the videos and music that you love, upload original content and share it all with friends, family and the world on YouTube.

https://youtu.be/qKFMK2eDWeQ?si=dG4v4K6wCliasrPv

Chatonette · 13/11/2025 13:50

Rainbowcat77 · 13/11/2025 13:15

Is this really a “thing”?? I think I’d be a little bit unnerved if somebody produced a pre-prepared playlist ahead of sex.

Just want to try something new, hence looking for ideas to check out!

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TheBirches · 13/11/2025 14:09

GarlicHound · 13/11/2025 13:21

Yeah, this is why none of the unquestionably sexy soul songs work for me! Great in the preceding stages, but I don't want to be singing along during copulation 😂

Yes, penetration while yodeling 'LET'S GET IT ON, LET'S LOVE, SUGAR' is going to be extremely offputting.

Starlight1984 · 13/11/2025 14:32

Cigarettes After Sex - Nothing's Gonna Hurt You Baby.

feelingfree17 · 13/11/2025 14:57

Avalon - Bryan Ferry

Theyreeatingthedogs · 13/11/2025 15:09

Donna Summer
Love to love you baby

LadyGrillingSole · 13/11/2025 15:20

Primal Scream - Come Together ( farley mix )
Led Zeppelin - Whole Lotta Love
INXS - Need You Tonight
Kings of Leon - Sex On Fire
David Bowie - Hang on to Yourself

LittleJustice · 13/11/2025 15:44

Sexual Healing - Marvin Gaye
Kiss - Prince
Fade into You - Mazzy Star

Trouble is, I'd be singing along and completely distracted

Blingismything · 13/11/2025 15:58

Juicy Fruit - Mtume
Anita Baker - Caught up in the Rapture
Joan Armatrading - Love and Affection
Tom Odell - Butterflies

SandboxSalsa · 13/11/2025 16:00

Rainbowcat77 · 13/11/2025 13:15

Is this really a “thing”?? I think I’d be a little bit unnerved if somebody produced a pre-prepared playlist ahead of sex.

And for an extra-sexy flex, be sure to tell the other person it’s been crowd-sourced off Mumsnet

TheBirches · 13/11/2025 16:01

SandboxSalsa · 13/11/2025 16:00

And for an extra-sexy flex, be sure to tell the other person it’s been crowd-sourced off Mumsnet

That would set any reasonable person aflame, surely?

AgnesX · 13/11/2025 17:04

TheBirches · 13/11/2025 14:09

Yes, penetration while yodeling 'LET'S GET IT ON, LET'S LOVE, SUGAR' is going to be extremely offputting.

😅