Would you end your marriage?

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Discovered OH has been talking to other girls, seeing strippers and paying web cam girls and OF girls for “entertainment”. I am disgusted. What would you do?

If my husband was caught doing that, I'd kick him out and file for divorce. That is an absolute deal breaker

Yes absolutely. Not the kind of man I'm interested in being married to.

Divorce him.

Yes.

Yes I would

Time to make him your ex husband.

Absolutely. In à heart beat. It is not ok.

I would file for divorce.

Yes I would end my marriage.

Initiate divorce. There’s no coming back from that.

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Discovered?

He would be out of the house within 5 seconds of me discovering this information.

Seriously?

I can't imagine how this would even merit a question mark in my mind. There is no way I'd consider continuing with this shit show.

Yes, of course. I can't imagine any mitigating factors that would mean I'd allow him to stay long enough to 'explain'

I've never got the appeal of strippers. And I question anyone who wants to sit around with a load of strangers or even friends all getting aroused together.

OF girls. None of it is real. There is no care towards you beyond your money.

I may be the odd one out but if I found out any of my married or in a relationship male friends was doing stuff like this I would absolutly pull them up on it for being shallow, selfish and question their relationship.

And thats not even starting to think about the impact on you!

If I ever behaved in such a way I would fully expect my wife to be hurt, disgusted and want out.

I'd leave. I'm really sorry OP 💐 sending lots of love and strength to you xx

Never mind taking him to the cleaners, may I suggest the Vets instead

Why are you even asking, feel some worth for yourself and leave

For me, it would not even be a thought process. Respect is gone. Relationship is dead.

I did

That behaviour is unacceptable and unforgivable.

Thanks for the reassurance.

Completely unforgivable.
He's cheating scum.
I hope you don't have children.
Get yourself checked for STI's.

He didn’t initially see it as cheating. Funny how some men justify it to themselves. 3 children! Kit has been ordered xx