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Did my gf cheat on me?

10 replies

BlingersMcBling · 27/10/2025 12:25

I went out on a night out with my gf, we had a massive argument, she stormed off home. When I got home she wasn’t there. She turned up at 6 in the morning and said she’d been with the neighbour and her boyfriend and another lad doing drugs all night. She swears nothing happened. But a few days later she went outside into the back garden and the neighbours boyfriend was outside having a cigarette and I hear him say “It’s our naughty neighbour”.
she swears he only said this because of the drugs she took… but to me describing someone as “naughty” insinuates that they did sexual things.
she swears nothing happened.
am I being an idiot for believing her?
thanks

OP posts:
didntlikeanyofthesuggestions · 27/10/2025 12:26

Were they illegal drugs? That would be pretty naughty so her story checks out. Sounds like you can relax.

Coconutter24 · 27/10/2025 12:26

You’re ok with her doing drugs but not cheating?

Pleasegetmeacoffeesotired · 27/10/2025 12:27

Go ask your neighbour?

Robertsmithsnan · 27/10/2025 13:24

Doing drugs all night? That would be the end of the relationship for me.

FuzzyWolf · 27/10/2025 13:32

There is nothing there to suggest infidelity.

Blarghism · 27/10/2025 14:24

Since she needed to swear blind nothing happened I'm assuming you already asked her if she cheated. What was your argument about? Do you often get jealous/accuse her of cheating?

WallaceinAnderland · 27/10/2025 14:45

We have the same information as you.

strawgoh · 27/10/2025 14:54

You had a massive argument with her? What was the argument about?

VanyaV · 27/10/2025 14:57

I don’t think she’s done anything from what you’ve said, but you don’t trust her and have blazing arguments, so is it worth saving anyway?

UpDownAllAround1 · 27/10/2025 14:58

Who knows - is Jeremy Kyle still on ?

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