At 70, my libido has definitely not run out of rocket fuel. I miss sex dreadfully and would love to have a man in my life again. I was married for 34 years and divorced him 14 years ago when I realised his affairs weren't a mid-life crisis but a lifestyle choice. I now live in a very rural area where everyone is partnered up, and it's very difficult to meet new people. I've tried various dating sites, but men of my age seem to want a housemaid and those a decade or two younger than me want Jessica Rabbit. I'm lively, independent, interesting, not bad looking, and definitely not frumpy or prudish. I'm not looking for marriage or any kind of financial dependence. Surely there's a man out there who'd love me for myself? But where??