How often do you ‘do it’ in your 50s if you don’t mind sharing

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Partner getting annoyed with me for not wanting it or being intimate enough. Ongoing issue , makes me feel bad and about myself 🫤
Sorry to ask but no idea of what norms are, he is early 60s!

How long have you been together? I think that’s a big factor.
we are both mid 50s but only together a year so at it non stop!

We’ve been together for 40 years and we haven’t done it since the last century! We were at it like rabbits for the first 15 and it gradually fell off. We still snuggle and hold hands though.

Once or twice a week. More on holiday or home alone. Together 28 years.

Dh is also early 60s like yours , we've been through a dry patch where is was months apart, but lately twice a week ish .
Been together 26 years .

2 or 3 times a week both late 50s been together 42 years.

We set time aside each Saturday for being close. We work and age has got to us, so don’t have as much energy as we used to. But we still love to be intimate and make time for each other. We don’t dtd every week, but often do because we’ve essentially spent the day making sure we are just a bit more special and loving.

we’ve been together 30 years.

Once a week, Saturday morning!! It’s good to make the time and it’s a lovely way to reconnect after the week and start the weekend.