Bit peeved

[Parentsinlaw]

DH away to the pub with his mate, leaving me with his father and his fathers/our friend. He came back full of how his mates wife ( my friend) and lots of others were there yet he didn’t think to text me.
every morning he greets me with a ‘can you put the hot water on can you find me a sock’ while I go and make coffee for us. he said he thought I wanted to stay in ( with his dad?) and the usual excuse,‘I’m tired, I’m at work all week and it’s very stressful’
just venting. AIBU to be a bit fed up?

No you're not BU because it sounds like he's taking you for granted. But I do think you might owe him a little leeway if you don't work all week yourself, when he does.

If your friend was at the pub he definitely should have told you (but so should she). I'd be a bit miffed about that to be honest, about him and about her. H

He can find his own bloody socks, you're his partner not his mum.

Does his Dad live with you?
I don't understand why you are with his Dad and he isn't. Why didn't you all go to the pub?
And she doesn't sound much of a friend if she didn't tell you she was going too. Is everybody accustomed to you being at home while he socialises?

It was rude of him to leave his dad and his dad's friend and just piss off to the pub. Can you imagine if you did that and left him with your mum or dad?

I assume that you have kids which is why you all didn't go to the pub?