GF wants to be "fertilized" on a certain date

[GingerLad1998]

So me and my GF have been dating for three years, We have a mortgage and we want kids next year as we are 25 and 27 years of age So we are still young enough. However, my GF said to me the other day after sex "You can finish inside me on (Insert date) of next year" and I noticed the other day that she even put a "Tick" on that date on our calender in the kitchen. She was also a virgin when we met (so was I) but she didnt want her virginity taken until her 25th birthday, of course I waited and this wasnt a problem for me but she also marked that down on the calender.

Well it's weird (and not going to give you the highest chance of conceiving), but what's your question?

Unlikely she will get preg that one time but who knows

why that date ?

and making on calender her first time she has sex …….

It's quite weird and slightly distasteful. Also, women's cycles don't really work like that. I guess she is saying, this is the point at which you as a couple can start trying to conceive. Do you want a child?

Why?

Hope you’ve finished all your homework!

Have you asked her why?

You want to have a child with this woman but if you don’t understand her reasonings and processes, then can’t even speak to her openly about them, you’re going to have a very difficult time.

This is all kinds of weird. Why is she so obsessed with dates?

Does she mean that's the date on which she wants to start trying?

So she wants to start TTCing next year. What's the problem?

Well surely you asked her why? What's her reason?

I asked our builder if he could finish inside by the end of September.

Perhaps I need to call him back and clarify what I meant.

Did you have a question/what were you wanting from replies?

Very weird and no, not how fertility cycles work. Also, what age is too old to have kids? You guys seem on the young end of the procreation spectrum to me but might just be cultural differences.

Anyway, not sure what you’re looking for here. Doesn’t sound like you guys understand each other too well from the scant info in your OP and I’d be more concerned about that if you’re going to have kids together. Sounds like you guys are trying to live life to some sort of timetable.