We have had problems in the relationship over the past 3 years. 3 stressful years to be fair. We are currently on holiday. However there is no intimacy not even a kiss... I went into the hot tub earlier... The night before I'd talked about it'd be fun to have a glass of wine in the hot tub. Thought he would join me... Instead nothing .... All he talked about was some dishes he'd have to put into the dishwasher...and then he went to bed. .. I'm not even sure what to say anymore. I just feel like this is no real relationship anymore?