Cheating

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How did you find out that your husband is cheating on you

He told me

Saw it on his phone

He told me while it was still an emotional affair, said he had ended it.
I found he slept with her after that - from her husband who shared their messages with me.
Hope you aren't going through the same op. Its hideous

I walked in on them having sex upstairs one Saturday afternoon. However, by then I knew she was seeing someone else. It was only a matter of time before they got sloppy.

I'm so sorry that happened to you. How horrific

I found an email he’d deleted (yes I was snooping but he was showing all the classic signs that he was hiding something). The deleted email led me to a whole raft of hidden accounts that told the whole story.

So - do you suspect, but you’re not sure?
Some people are very good at hiding the evidence (but when you know each other well enough, you can see the signs).

By then, I knew she was sleeping with someone though. It was traumatic but confirmed completely what I already knew.