Please advise x

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I’ve been going out with someone and it seems to be going well.

we’ve already been intimate and it’s been great. Recently he’s asked if i would consider to peg him. Obviously not if I’m uncomfortable with it.

I’ve just been thinking whether or not this means he’s bi or not yet out.
is this normal for a straight guy to ask?

It doesn't mean he's bi, no, but two things:

1. being bi doesn't stop him from having a committed (presumably straight) relationship
2. it could well indicate that you're not sexually compatible

How did he react to you declining?

No, it doesnt mean he's gay or bi

She didn’t say she did decline, or that she wasn't interested

You should ask him if he's bi. He's clearly not gay else why date women?

Pegging is quite common and I think more now popular because of porn. It used to be 'stick a little finger up there', now they realise it can feel nice they want the full deal.

The butt has loads of pleasure receptors so to enjoy having it stimulated sexually doesn't make you gay. Many women enjoy anal.

But of course don't do it if you don't want to. And just because you do it sometimes doesn't mean you have to do it whenever he demands.

No, I don’t think it’s indicative of anything.

I haven’t declined. Like him a lot so happy to do it. But just wanted to clarify that’s he’s definitely straight.