Location: Tennessee
Hello,
I’m reaching out because I need help and protection from someone who has been controlling, manipulative, and threatening toward me over the past 3 years. The situation has escalated to the point where I feel unsafe. This person has:
Pressured me into sexual situations when I wasn’t willing, including choking me until I complied.
Asked friends behind my back for threesomes and pressured others to join without my knowledge.
Used emotional manipulation like “breaking and fixing” me — saying mean things to make me doubt myself, then praising me to keep control.
Made me fearful of angering him, sometimes getting physically violent, and threatened to hurt me if I left or disobeyed.
Accused me falsely of cheating and stalked me by asking others about me and trying to isolate me from friends.
Admitted plans to kidnap me, which scares tf out me.
Made jokes about choking me in front of friends and said to others that I was “trained right,” showing he views me as something he owns.
I want to file for a temporary restraining order or get some kind of legal protection, but I want to do it without my name being publicly connected unless it becomes necessary later. And something that is relatively cheap as i just turned 18. I am scared of retaliation and want to keep my identity confidential as much as possible.
Please help me understand how I can report this safely and get the protection I need without exposing myself to further risk. I would also appreciate any support or guidance on how to proceed.
Thank you for your help.