Find these comments uncomfortable

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Maybe I'm a prude but would you find these comments uncomfortable. On another group I'm on a woman is talking about a new man she's dating and how he hasn't given her oral sex yet, and most of the comments are "push his head down" "just sit on his face" "dump him!" Etc, maybe they are "joking" but can't help but feel if it was men saying this about a woman going down they would be screaming about how unacceptable it is and yes someone did actually suggest just pushing him down there or sitting on his face. Does anyone else find this really hypocritical?!

I agree OP.

Double standards. And not funny.

Men say a lot worse than that about women. It's not great but that's about it.

So what's your point? Just because men say disgusting and vile things about women it doesnt make these comments acceptable.

Exactly, why complain about men saying it if you are going to say it as well. It's either ok or it isn't.

I think if it’s a group of friends having a laugh then it’s not an issue as we all say things privately to mates we wouldn’t say publicly.

It's not a group of friends "on another group"

Completely disgusting. I wouldn't go around discussing my intimate relationship with my partner, either. I find it quite disrespectful of his/our privacy. Proud prude here, though.