Mismatched sex drive or?

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I am seeing someone and he lives a couple of hours away from me. On average we see each other every 3 weeks or so, sometimes more often.

Today he has come over for the weekend, he's been affectionate, cuddling etc and has now fallen asleep. No sexual activity at all. I tried to kiss him, and it just ended up being a series of kisses, I wanted a snog ha.

I just feel rejected a bit to be honest. I know I have a higher sex drive than him but this is the first time we've seen each other after several weeks and not had sex the first night together.

Aibu to feel this way? I purposely didn't initiate more because I felt the kiss was a bit of a rejection...

That’s very odd - either his sex drive is on the floor or he really isn’t into you.

Given the fact it’s so long distance anyway, I’d just call time on this.

Unless you've been seeing each other for 10 years or something, that's not right

That’s not true. She acknowledges she has a higher sex drive anyway. There are all kinds of reasons he might not want sex - maybe he’s knackered or congested or upset by something at work. Not all men are sex mad dogs.

Or he is really tored and they will so it in the morning

OP has posted two separate topics asking the same question, so replies are spread across both.

Does he have any challenges like ED which make it all a bit stressful for him ?