Because he ended their 6 month affair with the woman involved and as a result thought she would expose their relationship so he had to tell me otherwise I'd be none the wiser.
I am completely devastated. I had my suspicions that there was someone else for probably over a year but he denied anything when i questioned him. He has shown me his phone messages he has told her he loves her but denies he loves her, they slept together only half a dozen times apparently. Why should i believe anything he says.
He is full of remorse and moved into the spare room.
I live with him and now have to find some where else to live, this will unfortunately involve relocation and a new job.
We are both late 50s, not married and no kids together.
Is there anything else I need to do apart from getting an sti check, I mean how do I even find out where to get one from? TYIA