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Narcissistic???

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ThisLimeHedgehog · 20/07/2025 23:18

I took my husband for a weekend away for his birthday…. No kids. At a bar we was in he told me this girl who was dancing next our table threw herself at him although I never seen this. Apparently when went the toilet although I never went the whole time in there. I approached the girl and asked her only for my husband to start yelling I was a liar and he never said this. Weeks later… still not convinced of what happened he has now told me this girl stood behind me while me and him was at the table sexy dancing and rubbing her breasts while we was talking.with my back to her. His reason for not telling me this at the time is because “he didn’t want trouble and he wasn’t interested” yet was happy to yell at me across the room. can someone please give me their opinion as this is destroying me. Am I just paranoid?

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ReluctantBikini · 20/07/2025 23:21

Narcissist or not this relationship is toxic and needs to end.

ThisLimeHedgehog · 20/07/2025 23:30

please tell me why you think this. He’s trying to convince me he has done nothing wrong I believe he has

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ninjahamster · 20/07/2025 23:32

I read your post several times and I don’t really understand!

ThisLimeHedgehog · 20/07/2025 23:32

ReluctantBikini · 20/07/2025 23:21

Narcissist or not this relationship is toxic and needs to end.

please tell me why you think this. He’s trying to convince me he has done nothing wrong I believe he has
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ThisLimeHedgehog · 20/07/2025 23:34

Understand which part

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suburberphobe · 20/07/2025 23:35

was happy to yell at me across the room

Tells you all you need to know.

Life is wonderful without these wankers around.

slightlydistrac · 20/07/2025 23:37

You are not paranoid. He definitely is an arsehole.

ThisLimeHedgehog · 20/07/2025 23:41

im not perfect by any means and what relationship is… but am I wrong in thinking this is completely disrespectful and embarrassing towards your partner?

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