Hey!
I had a work party last night, and I’m left wondering now if I’m overthinking things.
Here’s what happened -
While dancing and having fun with some coworkers, I ended up dancing with a close colleague (a bit older) who I've shared drinks and parties with before.
We were having fun—dancing, joking, and there was a lot of playful touching.
At some point, we started grinding, which was enjoyable for both of us.
She even kissed my cheek and whispered she was enjoying herself.
Later, we danced again and got more touchy—her hand was all over my waist, and shoulders, but nothing felt uncomfortable.
Then we got bit tired and started dancing slowly.. then, things got a little more intimate. She hugged me from behind, kissed my cheek and neck, and even pulled aside my strap of dress to reveal my collar and shoulder, kissing me there too. It all felt like part of the dance, and I didn’t think much of it at the time.
A couple of weeks ago, we had a conversation where we shared that we were both single (she’s divorced, no kids) and that we miss being loved and emotionally connected. We also share the same bi-curiosities about women, but we never directly mentioned any romantic interest.
Now, I’m wondering... am I overthinking this whole situation, or was it just a fun, flirtatious night?