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So confused

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Feyrestruth · 11/07/2025 01:38

separated from my w after 15 years still living together for the kids until we have everything sorted with the house etc , she has been sleeping with numerous guys behind my back but denied everything, we have two children 8 and 4 and worried that she shouldn’t be left alone with them after finding out that the guys she has been sleeping with are drug users and have just been released from prison , what do I do to protect them ?

OP posts:
beetr00 · 11/07/2025 04:03

if you're still living together @Feyrestruth she surely can't be bringing the guys around the children at home? Ergo, the children have not been compromised?

baileys6904 · 11/07/2025 04:13

beetr00 · 11/07/2025 04:03

if you're still living together @Feyrestruth she surely can't be bringing the guys around the children at home? Ergo, the children have not been compromised?

What makes you think that?

My mother used to regularly bring her AP to the house when I was a child and my dad was working.

Op, perhaps you now need or properly separate and seek custody?

beetr00 · 11/07/2025 04:31

@baileys6904

"What makes you think that?"

Why would the OP allow that when their concern is the children.

@Feyrestruth Has agency here, surely?

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