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Is this harassment…

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Singlemumofone1 · 10/07/2025 20:08

i broke up with my ex and he isn’t taking it well. We had been together a while but for me the love had faded and I didn’t see him as the one I wanted to be with. He felt otherwise and thought everything was perfect. Due to this thinking he thinks I cheated on him and have another guy in the picture.
He has taken this badly and has started posting on Facebook calling me nasty names and saying I left him for another person etc all over facebook. He’s now blocked me on Facebook so I’m not sure what he’s all posting but now he’s messaging my friends and being nasty and telling them stuff I confided in him about. Trying to split up friendships. He just won’t stop and I’m worried what he will do next. I’ve asked him to stop but he keeps messaging me too and I can’t block him until he gets his stuff out my place.

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MounjaroMounjaro · 10/07/2025 20:17

Put his stuff in bin bags and leave them outside your door in the morning. Tell him (via a friend if necessary) that he either picks them up or, if they're still there in 24 hours, they're going to the tip. I wouldn't get into a Facebook fight but would certainly tell my friends the true story.

MuckFusk · 11/07/2025 00:59

Yes, it is harassment. I'd just block him and donate his crap. He doesn't deserve a single bit of consideration from you given his disgusting behaviour. Are you worried for your physical safety?

Yogabearmous · 11/07/2025 01:08

Dump his stuff in bin bags and drop at his home or his mothers house - then block him
on everything. Tell police if he keeps this up.

sameshizz · 11/07/2025 06:45

Send him one last message making it clear that if he continues to contact you or your friends you will be going to the police .

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