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Tommyasp · 07/07/2025 23:47

Sorry in advance might be long winded just really need advice and another perspective
Iv just ended it with my girlfriend theres loads that happened bu this was the final straw, with lived separately n she lives in a shared house with separate rooms I asked her about 2,3 o'clock if she wanted to go do something as we both stayed at r separate places the night before and I was busy til about 2 she said yes but she's waiting to sort some weed I don't smoke it but coz I loved her I put up with it,so I said ok let me know when you want me to come round she said just after 5 so I sorted some bits washed me car n topped up fuel ready for when we go out it got to 20 past 5 and I thought as I headed back to town I'd head over I called she didn't answer as was near I txt she replied Im still waiting tom I told u id message I said ok I was just gonna come see ya and wait with you as it was near the time I mean I'm her bf I couldn't see the problem she then replied chill out tom which I was she then said I'm now sorting but before I meet u I'm gonna have a spliff with the guy who lives below! I was baffled by this but bit my lip n went 5mins up the road and waited sorting out my boot to pass time she then rang me saying again chill out I said I am chilled I was just gonna pop in and see her I'd also got her a frappuccino she likes she then said I'm just having smoke with this guy who lives below her I still bit my lip said nothing n was like ok message me when your sorted n ready n il come as waiting for u I was calm n normal,15 min went by so went to just drive home she then rang again speaking in a shitty tone saying why didn't you come round I said I was just having a spliffs with that guy!,??? I snapped I was like u what youve been fkin making wait hanging around wen I was outside urs then up then road n u said chill out il let ya know when I'm ready coz u wanted to smoke with some guy instead of meeting ya fkin boyfriend!! I told her I'm done she shouted a load of crap n hung up I took her bag of stuff she had at mine went to hers where she was nowhere to be seen n I left her bag at the bottom of her stairs inside,shes then was messaging me trying to spin it on me n didn't here from her, 8 days later she's seeing someone else! Was I Wright in what I did?

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EBearhug · 07/07/2025 23:49

Yes, it sounds like you're better apart.

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