I met up with a ex fling, me and him dated for some months about a year ago. Although it was a short time it was intense and meaningful on my end. I ended up giving him my virginity so after things ended he still had a hold on me.
Even though we ended things we were still in communication sporadically off and on. He would entertain my antics when I would reach out etc. I ended up meeting him he drove and hour to the spot, he gets there and he’s just cold and distant. Keep and mind he wanted and agreed to meeting me!!! He was staring at his phone while looking at me? I asked him how was his drive, he answered with “well I’m here”.
Then it got bad he talked about my shoes “wow this is my first time seeing you with different shoes, you better have threw the others away” He just went to nasty fast. That should have been my cue to leave but I stayed longer. I’m also a very beautiful girl so I always look put together, men we’re staring at me as well. He kept looking at me but never gave me a compliment. I asked him if he watched a tv show that I’ve been watching, he responded with saying no, but that he should because there’s a girl on it that he finds attractive…..
I then started talking about my girlfriend and how we are going to go out later on. He commented and said “how does you friend look” I told him to stop being disrespectful. He then replied and said “if we’re done and you don’t care why does it matter”. I was appalled, then he asked to go through my phone ? He tried to unlock my phone and go through it…… Then he tried to show me pictures of women that were in his DMs…… It was insulting, he then basically told me that me giving him my virginity wasn’t a good thing. After that I called it a night and decided to leave. I felt so disrespected I couldn’t believe it….. why drive an hour just ridicule me and break me down ?
Then he started texting me afterwards saying “so you don’t want to see me again” “you put on a front all the time”… I ended up just blocking him. I don’t know what I ever did to him to deserve that……
At the end of the day it was a learning experience to never go back ever. I should have left him in the past.